How to make a man want you
“How to make a man want you?” is a question women of all ages are asking. If you are looking for love, are you having relationship problems, or even if you still love your ex-boyfriend, the problem of making a man want you is very real.
However, the problem of making a man want and adore you, is actually a problem in communication and understanding. Women simply don’t understand men, women don’t understand what a man is thinking or why he behaves the way he does. To get a man to want you, you don’t have to change who you are, you have to learn who he is and to understand what your man wants.
All women, me included, have been on what they thought was a great date, only to never hear from the man again. There must be a reason, assuming he didn’t die tragically on the way home!
The answer is because women don’t understand men, and don’t know how to make a man want to be with them.
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Five ways to make a man want you:
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1) Be yourself – Don’t change or mask who you really are. If you are be in-genuine to try to impress a man, he will be able to sense that something isn’t right. He wont understand why but your uncomfortable behaviour will make him feel wary. He will avoid further contact or a second date.
When you are talking to a man you are attracted to ask yourself:
“Do I normally behave like this?“
If the answer is no, take a moment to breathe and relax. Either start behaving normally or extract yourself from the situation as soon as possible.
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2)Be confident - You need to display confidence, but not arrogance. Being confident is about being comfortable in your own skin and quietly letting the world know about how good you are feeling.
To start to be confident you need to become clear in your own mind what you want. What are your goals, what do you want in your life, what do you want in your career or in your relationships.
If you are sure of your destination, the route you want to take and map it out in your mind, you will be less likely to take a wrong turn. To make a mistake.
When you know you are not going to make a wrong choice; for instance, start dating a “loser” or a cheat, you will feel confident and start to show the world this inner strength.
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3)Give him space - Men need space, they do not want to talk about everything. Men want space to think, they need breathing room. Don’t crowd a man or try to hold on to him to tightly.
For example:
You have been seeing a man for several weeks, everything is going well. You see him several times a week and talk and text on the phone to make the arrangements. He has a big meeting at work and you expect to see him later that day, but nothing firm has been arranged. He doesn’t call you and two days later you still haven’t spoken to him.
So you ring him and leave several messages getting more and more desperate. You ring your friends and discuss it for many hours, asking why your dream man has gone off you.
In fact, things hadn’t gone well at the guys work and he needs time alone to think about what he’s going to do. He has withdrawn, but not from you, from the noisy world. He needs space.
But your desperate calls and your attempt to force him to be closer have caused him to think again, you appeared a bit clingy and desperate. Now he has gone off you!
You should have given him space, and text him one supportive and light message, then let him come to you.
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4)Know how to enjoy yourself – What do you like to do? How do you have fun? This is a way to be in touch with yourself. You will exude happiness and confidence. Inner happiness is very seductive, it will draw men to you. They will want to feel your energy and share in your fun.
What makes you happy?
I love to sing show tunes, really loud and very badly, in the car, in the shower, anywhere. I don’t need anyone to hear me (probably best!), but it makes me happy. When I sing “All that jazz” I know I radiate joy and confidence, and men can’t help but respond.
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5)Don’t be to available – When you meet a nice man, don’t be to available to him. He doesn’t need three contact numbers and your home and work email! That all shouts desperate…run away!
When he does ring you, keep the call short and you end the call on a high note. During that call consider not being available on Saturday, suggest another day that would be better for you. Don’t be scared if he is the right man for you he will be flexible.
Never make a date with a man that rings you and asks you out within 24 hours of the date, it shows no respect and you need him to understand that you have a life!
This is basically working on a scarcity principle, it’s human nature to want and value what we can’t get. The challenge will keep his interest.
To get more advice on how to make a man want you,finding love and dating tips, please read some of my articles on my blog relationship advice for women. I will add more in-depth articles from time to time, and would love to read your comments and any of your own tips on finding Mr Right.
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If you are single looking for a new love, trying to get back with your ex-boyfriend, or married and want to get more from your relationship, you will find that learning to understand what drives the man in your life will benefit your current and all your future relationships. By learning what a man wants, you will have learnt “how to make a man want you“. Your life and loves will all run smoother and you will be living your dream relationship.
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